What To Call Your Dom? (Different Names We Know!)

I think “Sir” and “Boss” are good for doms. Anything that suggests authority. You could get pretty creative with that if you want to. For instance, Judge, King, Empress, Maestro, Your Exaltedness, My Lord/Lady, Your Majesty, Mistress Bossy PantsI told my fiance today that I was interested in being submissive, But I wanted to start slowly. He agreed to it and said we could give it a shot.

Keep reading for help determining your Dominant or submissive nickname.

Dominant Names

If you’re a dominant, an appropriate name will make you feel powerful and in charge. You won’t feel uncomfortable, or like you’re playing dress-up. But you’ll be ready to control a bondage scene (discover more about bondage) and your partner with skill. It’s not uncommon for dominants to combine some of the titles below with their actual names. Think “Lady Sarah.”

Female Dominant Names

Below are some common dominant female names and titles that you can use in your relationship or scenes:

1. Mistress
2. Maitresse
3. Milenka
4. Lady
5. Goddess
6. Queen
7. Mommy
8. Domina
9. Countess
10. Khaleesi
11. Princess
12. Ma’am
13. Madam
14. Governess
15. Headmistress
16. Miss
17. Ms
18. Bitch

You’ve probably heard of several of these suggestions for dominant female names.

Mistress is common and the feminized form of Master. But not everyone enjoys it because of its connection to human slavery. For them, a name such as Khaleesi, which originates in fantasy books/TV show Game of Thrones, might be a better option. This idea opens the doors to all sorts of names that your favorite media might inspire.

Names such as Goddess or Queen can be great choices because they create a sense of power and worship. Adding a descriptor such as “glorious” or “benevolent” can customize the name, too.

While less common, Domina is still quite elegant, and Princess can indicate a lack of power, making it for an extraordinary power trip when you force your submissive to use it when speaking to you.

Don’t forget to check out our BDSM checklist as you explore the lifestyle.

Male Dominant Names

Many of the dominant names to call your guy are simply the masculine form of the names suggested for women above.

1. King
2. Lord
3. Dom
4. Count
5. Prince
6. Headmaster
7. Mister
8. Maestro
9. Dominus
10. Daddy
11. Sir

Again, many of these honorifics denote power. A fairly common name that makes this list, Daddy, is ideal for dominants who display fatherly tendencies such as nurturing, guiding, correctly, and caring about their submissives. It also works well if you’re in a DD/lg relationship.

Related: Do You Like Calling Him Daddy In Bed? You’re Not Alone!

Of course, not everyone is comfortable with the ideas that using titles like Daddy or Mommy suggests. It’s a personal decision!

Gender Neutral Dominant Names

If you thought the list of dominant names to call your husband was a bit short or missing a few notable exceptions, then they might be among the list of dominant names below:

1. Your Highness
2. Master
3. Owner
4. Handler
5. Governor
6. Deity
7. Liege
8. Chief
9. Boss
10. Commander
11. Your Exaltedness
12. Your Excellency
13. Keeper
14. Captain
15. Mx.
16. Sergeant
17. Alpha
18. Patron
19. First initial — i.e. J for Jason or Jennifer

Now, you might notice that some of these ideas seem masculine. However, some people don’t feel that a dominant name necessarily has to indicate gender. The person in charge of the scene remains in control whether they’re a man, woman, or nonbinary! And if someone plays with multiple dominant partners, it might be easier to use the same honorific for everyone; although, some people may prefer to use specific names for each partner.

Side note: As a dominant, you may want to say some of these dominant phrases to your sub to keep them in line.

There are much better names for your Dom if you intend to get into a D/s or Dom/sub relationship, rather than the usual one that people read about in Fifty Shades of Grey and many other popular sources.
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As a sub, you have ideal names for calling your Dom and making things hotter during the sexual encounter. Such names include Our Highness, Master, Owner, Handler, Governor, Chief, Boss and Commander. Depending on the theme of the intimate role-playing, you could also consider calling yourself Dom: Learn More About Dom and Sub-Relationship Names Before Naming Them So You Don’t Run Out of Ideas. I’m wondering now, what I should call him. I personally don’t like Master or Sir. He definitely doesn’t like Master. The only other one I know of is “Daddy” but I don’t know if he likes it, I don’t feel too comfortable using it either. Any ideas? Sincerely, Looking for a name, the big question most kinksters ask themselves from the very beginning…what name do I use?

The simplest and hardest thing is that what you call your partner is completely up to you. Master, Sir, and Daddy are the most common, but they aren’t the only options. Here are a few I’ve heard over the years:

• Mister
• Chief
• Coach
• Boss
• Liege
• King
• Lord
• Duke
• Marquis
• Viscount

As you can see, people have taken the “title” thing very literally. If you’re a history buff, go through old books to look for other terms or titles that might work. (Luna adds: I’ve also heard military titles, “Captain”, “Sergeant”, “Colonel”, etc.)

You can make it more unique by adding an initial, his name, or a made-up name to any of these. He might become Coach Q or Bossman or Lord James. And you’re not stuck with this list of titles. It can be, literally, anything.

• (My) Angel
• (My) Darling
• (My) Dear
• (My) Everything
• (My) Liege
• (My) Lord
• (My) Love
• (Your) Excellency
• (Your) Grace
• (Your) Highness
• (Your) Honor
• (Your) Majesty
• (Your) Worship
• Alpha
• Baba
• Bear
• Beast
• Beautiful
• Big Bear
• Big Brother
• Big Sister
• Boss
• Captain
• Chief
• Commander
• Consul
• Dada
• Daddy
• Dame
• Divine
• Dom
• Domina
• Dominus
• Domme
• Emperor
• Empress
• Father
• Frau
• Fräulein
• God
• Goddess
• Gorgeous
• Handsome
• Herr
• Hersir
• Hime
• Honey
• Hun
• Imperatore
• Instructor
• Jarl
• Kaiser
• Keeper
• King
• Konge
• Lady
• Leader
• Lord
• Madame
• Mademoiselle
• Maestro
• Mama
• Master
• Ma’am
• Miss
• Mister
• Mistress
• Mx.
• Mommy
• Monsieur
• Mother
• My Light
• My Moon
• My Only
• My Stars
• My Sun
• My World
• Oneechan
• Oniisan
• Owner
• Papa
• Praetor
• Prince
• Princess
• Profressor
• Protector
• Queen
• Regina
• Rey
• -San
• -Sama
• -Senpai
• -Sensei
• Sir
• Sire
• Sovereign
• Sweetheart
• Teacher
• Thane
• Trainer

Top Male Dominant Nicknames.

These names may be gender-sensitive, and their application is questionable to a certain extent in the context of an intimate theme or plot.

This is why you might have to return to ordinary ‘daddy’ and ‘mommy’. Another good suggestion is to use Dom’s initials instead of his first name.

Instead, please give him a nickname like K for Kelvin, J for Jennifer.

So here are interesting hot names to call your Dom, categorized into male and female.

You also don’t have to give him a title, if you don’t want to. I know a few D/s couples who use their real names because, for them, the titles don’t matter, it’s the tone in his voice, the actions, and the kinky things they do.

You may also find that you change over time as your relationship grows. When I first met my Dominant, he was “Sir” and several months later, he became “Daddy” because that fit us better.

Try out some names, see how they feel saying it and hearing it. And don’t force yourself to pick one that doesn’t work for you. Take your time. If you’re meant to use titles like this, it will come to you.

So here are interesting hot names to call your Dom, categorized into male and female.

1:King

When talking about the Dom doing some of these, you wish for a word that will inspire authority so that he’ll perform with energy.

Your dominant partner can be referred to as King and is amongst the best names.

2:Lord

Just like ‘King’, ‘Lord’ can serve as the equivalent for referring to your D-type within specific RPG issues.

Other common honorifics include Chief and King. Your dominant partner is feminine; it might sound too masculine and inappropriate.

3:Headmaster

Another creative name that you can give your Dom under the role-play theme with the headteacher.
You can, for instance, scream ‘Headmaster’ while being penetrated forcefully during a Teacher vs. student scene.

It jolted energy, imposed dominance on your Dom, and ignited the entire act.

4:Mister

Most people who use the ‘Mister’ name when referring to the dominant partner usually take inspiration from the environment or role play.

The moment you yell, ‘Mister, may I please have some more?’

as the whip lands on the crease of your thigh while the Dom is getting worked up builds this desire for continuation, which will lead to the Dom doing more or better.

5:Maestro

Maestro refers to Master but is applied to an individual who has attained mastery in art, for example, a composer, orchestra conductor or music tutor.

This refers to the control and management of affairs where when calling your Dom, this implies taking the lead or directing the affairs.

He is as much an actor of this act in intimacy.

6:Dominus

The owner’s Latin word for Master. The name is associated with authority that changes a wording when he beats you hard.

It is a name that invokes reverence, and whence pleasure and vital sustenance of the Dom are believed to come from.

7:Daddy

“Daddy” is quite an affectionate word many women like associating with their lovers while getting down in hot, passionate intercourse.

It will be more effective when it’s screaming, especially for men in role-playing.

Nonetheless, this term might not adequately define the situation if, for instance, there are several dominant partners on the scene, but the story needs to reflect on the honorific.

8:Sir

It’s all up to you when giving your pet a name in this particular case.

Nonetheless, it’s pretty easy to say, Sir.

However, most subs using Sir do not just say it in their heads; they pronounce it out loud when the Dom deserves it.

Such a name has its advantages as well, as one could use it also for public appearances.

9:Mistress

For a good number of male submissives, they refer to their female dominatrix as “Mistress”.

But, it contradicts itself because, otherwise, the sub can also be termed a mistress, but this occurs only when she takes over as the sub.

10:Melinka

Another word, Melinka, originated from the local folklore and means beautiful in Russian.

In our time, it is a common saying among Russians – “You call your Dominique.”

Whenever someone calls you Dominique, it shows that it is a pleasure, so the person gives in strength and persistence to intimate engagement.

TOP FEMALE Dominant Nicknames.

1:Lady

The female equivalent of a “Lady” is referred to as a Dom name.

This may be established through her part or role in the plot of that play.

Nevertheless, it should be coupled with some diverse names in order not to appear commonplace.
This is another title that you may adopt in the public domain.

2:Goddess

The submissive is told she orders and is called Goddess sexually.

It’s normal for people, so chances are that such a term will not escape from your mind when you call a girl at all.

3:Queen

For a submissive male, a queen is a feminine counterpart of a submissive.

The rationale behind naming it Queen is that it respects Dom and enables smooth flow and interaction.

4:Mommy

If there is mother/daughter role-playing that matches her porn mother character, then calling her ‘mommy’ would do just lovely.

It is effective only for the particular moment when she “plays mommy” in this scene.

5:Bitch

Have you not heard that whip & ropes-based intimacy involves using abuse to subs? Though it is also effective for female doms.

If she is called a bitch this time, then they would not feel so bad later after they have sealed that engagement.

6:Khaleesi

Khaleesi is not a name. And again, if you have watched the GAME OF THRONES, you may recall that Daenerys Targaryen received this regal title when she married Khal Drogo, the leader of the Dothraki Clan—calling Your Female Dom.

7:Countess

A countess is a lady married to a Count or an equal-status-earning woman.

Referring to her as a countess endows her with power and places her in the rightful position of a dom, hence enhancing intimate authoritarianism as you also complement her surname.

Some other creative names that can be used for a femdom are Domina, Princess, Ma’am, Madam, Governess, Headmistress, and Miss.

conclusion

In conclusion, our journey through the intricacies of “What To Call Your Dom? (Different Names We Know!)” has unveiled a treasure trove of distinctive and intimate titles that transcend the ordinary. From playful monikers to titles that exude respect and dominance, this guide offers a comprehensive exploration of naming dynamics in the realm of BDSM relationships. Click through to discover the most click-worthy and amazing titles that add depth and connection to your D/s dynamics. As you navigate the landscape of names, may you find the perfect expression that resonates with the unique nuances of your dynamic. Explore now and redefine the language of dominance and submission with names that reflect the essence of your bond.

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A Few Final Thoughts on Master and Slave Names

As you can see, the best nicknames for dominants and submissives are entirely subjective. So…

Make it personal – What sounds and feels good to you? What makes you feel connected to your partner? Is there a particular submissive male name that describes your partner’s personality? What about your personality as a dominant or submissive?

A traditional or unique name? – Don’t think you need to use a cliche or traditional name. What might be a good slave name for one person might feel cheesy or mean to someone else.

More than one BDSM name is fine – Finally, you don’t necessarily have to pick just one dominant name to call your guy! The setting might dictate another name. Perhaps you use a fairly common nickname such as “Darling” when around non-kinky (vanilla) people. You can get away with “Yes, Sir” as a male dominant name in most settings without others realizing that it has a BDSM connection.

On the other hand, your partner can call you by a dirtier female submissive name if you’re in the company of other kinksters or alone. Or you use a submissive pet name that no one else knows during a particularly intimate encounter or when trying to get your partner to submit even further but stick to a less personal submissive nickname if others are around.

Similarly, different roles might call for different names. For example, you might sometimes play a Daddy/little girl scene and use the appropriate female submissive name and male dominant name, even if those aren’t the submissive and dominant pet names you typically use. Your master might use a different name as a punishment. More BDSM punishment ideas here.

Here’s another consideration–some people are switches. This means that they feel comfortable as both the dominant and submissive. If this is your partner, he might have a male sub name that differs from the dominant pet name you use for him.

You don’t really need to have rhyme or reason for having multiple submissive pet names or dominant nicknames unless specific names have been outlined in your BDSM contract. Sometimes these things just naturally slip out.

FAQ

1: Which Names Can I Call My Dom?

The most common are probably: Daddy, Sir, Lord, Master. These could be very personal for you and the other depending on what dynamics you have. I have seen some folks call a governor, commander or general that is for example how my sub refers to me with the name M’hael which we got it form one of my favorite books.

2: If I Can’t Call My Boyfriend Daddy What Then?

Your boyfriend’s pop culture nicknames.
Mc Dreamy.
Mc Steamy.
Prince Charming.
Hercules.
Romeo.
Pooh Bear.
Mr. Big.
Squishy.

3:What Dom called?

The Fundamentals of Document Object Model.
DOM—an Application Programming Interface (API) for HTML and XML Documents. It specifies the logical arrangement of documents, their accessibility, and means of handling them.

4: What does a person call their lover by?

If you’re in a relationship, it’s not unusual to give your partner nicknames, including but not limited to: I mean, who cannot appreciate such nicknames like ‘my love’, ‘bae’,”baby” ,‘boo’ and ‘sweetheart’? Indeed, even though some may sound unrealistic, they are really much more than pet names because at the end of it

5: What is a sweet nickname?

Pumpkin, goobering, baby, honeybee, bumpkin, hon, dollface, sugah, sweetheart, and lovechild.